Gwyneth is part-time actress, full-time mom

“Some women can do it and that’s fantastic, but I can’t. You make choices as a wife and mother, don’t you ” said Paltrow. The actress is mother to Apple, eight, and Moses, five, and is married to singer Chris Martin of Coldplay. “You can’t have it all. I don’t care what it looks like,” said the actress who won the best actress Oscar for Shakespeare In Love.