Wife wakes up late, does not cook tasty food, man moves court for divorce

Mumbai: The Bombay High Court has dismissed a city resident's plea for divorce from his wife on the allegations that she failed to be a dutiful wife since, among other things, she used to wake up late and that she did not cook tasty food.

A bench of Justices KK Tated and Sarang Kotwal upheld an order of the family court that had dismissed the divorce plea filed by a resident of Santacruz on the ground that the allegations made above did not amount to cruelty, and thus, could not be a ground for divorce.

The bench ruled that the Family court's conclusions that the allegations made above did not amount to cruelty was correct in law and must not be interfered with.

It further observed that the wife of the petitioner was a working woman and yet, she was the one who had the additional burden of buying groceries, cooking for the petitioner and his parents, and doing all other household work. Therefore, allegations made by the petitioner that his wife did not cook tasty food, or that she wasn't dutiful could not be accepted as a ground for divorce.

The observations were made by the bench in an order passed on Thursday while it was hearing a plea filed by the petitioner, challenging the family court order that had refused him a divorce decree.

In his plea before the High Court, the petitioner had claimed that the Family Court judge had erred in its order.

He submitted as evidence, the statement of his father supporting his allegations such as those made above. He also alleged that his wife would abuse him and his parents if they tried to wake her up early in the morning. He said that after returning from her workplace at 6 pm, she would take a nap, and cook dinner only around 8:30 pm.

"She did not cook tasty and sufficient food and she never spent quality time with me. On days that I returned late from work, she would not even offer me a glass of water," he contended.

The wife in turn denied all allegations and said that before going to work, she used to cook food for the entire family. She also submitted as evidence, the statements of a neighbour and some relatives from the petitioner’s side who testified that whenever they used to visit her, they would find her busy with one household work or another.

She in turn alleged that the petitioner and his parents used to ill-treat her. "It is difficult to believe that the Respondent (Wife of the petitioner) was constantly abusing and threatening the petitioner and his parents. It is further the Appellant's (petitioner) case that when he used to return home late, the respondent failed to cook well, or take care of his needs. That again can not amount to cruelty," the bench said.

"One can’t lose sight of the fact that the respondent herself was a working woman who, in addition to her job, had the additional task of cooking each morning and evening, of buying vegetables, and groceries on her way home from work," the bench said.

"The learned Family Court judge also rightly criticised the appellant for expecting a glass of water to be offered to him each time by the respondent," the bench said. "Thus, taking overall view of the matter, we do not find any merit in the appeal. Consequently, the appeal is dismissed," it said.