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People new to sex should not try these positions

Published : Jan 3, 2017, 3:18 pm IST
Updated : Jan 3, 2017, 3:18 pm IST

Some positions might seem inviting after having sex for the first time but they should not be tried without adequate experience.

Some might cause injuries while others may not be as good without experience (Photo: YouTube)
 Some might cause injuries while others may not be as good without experience (Photo: YouTube)

A person's first sexual experience may come early in life for some and for some it might be comparatively late, but since talking about and exploring sex is becoming less of a hush hush affair, people are also becoming more adventurous in bed.

But before you jump into bed and try new positions and bring your wildest fantasies to life right after your first experience, there are some things which you need to be careful about, as some sex positions are not to be performed without adequate experience, no matter how enticing they are.


In order to avoid embarrassing fails in bed or even something as serious as injuries, there are few sex positions you should keep for a point when you have acquired the needed experience and it’s also important in order to get the best out of these amazing positions.

1. Anal play without prior build-up

Although anal sex may sound like the next step forward after you are introduced to intercourse, going at it right away can result in a very painful experience which may not encourage going for it again. The correct way is to first get the idea from verbal cues or eye contact, or simply ask your partner, and then some fingering and playing should follow, as enough lube should be used.


2. Shower sex

Having seen this in several movies, shower sex may seem like the steamiest option for couples who are feeling adventurous. But considering that there will be water and soap along with a slippery floor, sex while standing under the shower may end up in someone getting badly hurt. That seems to be enough reason for having enough experience before going for it under the shower.

3. 69

There’s not much of a risk of an accident in this very popular position, but then 69 has immense potential for pleasure and that it’s highly likely that it might be wasted if you are finding your feet. It’s also required to make eye contact with your partner when you are new to sex, and this position isn’t great for that. So leave this one for later if you want to make the best of it.


4. Reverse Cowgirl

Now you have just started off with sex and you won’t want anything that may cause an injury to your vital organs, will you? A Brazilian study has stated that most number of penile fractures have been reported from woman-on-top positions, and that seems enough to go for cowgirl after some more exposure. In reverse cowgirl the risk is higher since there’s no eye contact and lesser scope for co-ordination, leaving the man at risk of getting hurt.

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