A recent discussion on Reddit saw women talk about some sex tips. One started off by asking her fellow forum users about the one bedroom mistake men make which they really hate.
It wasn't long before the answers came flooding in and here are the sex habits women hate the most
Dodgy kissing: This comes high on ladies' hit lists, especially when the smooches are sloppy. One woman wrote: "For some godforsaken reason, too many guys have thought ear kissing needed generous saliva.” She went on to add, “Nibble on my ear lobe, maybe tickle me with your tongue a bit. DO NOT latch your mouth to my ear and start making out with it so much so that I've got a loogie in my ear. I will vomit on you.”
Another thing topping the list was that a lot of men thought that a quick smooch is all it took to head straight between the sheets.
One Redditor put it, "Sometimes I want to kiss slowly and sensually but not have sex right that very minute but I swear he considers it foreplay.”
Also, shoving the tongue down in a woman’s throat was a big turn off as well.
Foreplay blunders: Many were irritated by how little attention men pay to their bodies. It seems a lot of guys like to jump straight to the main event - but that's the quickest way to turn a woman off. One user explained, "Do not underestimate the power of touch. Touch me. Touch you. All over. I want it all.”
She added, “There's nothing like foreplay that's long and teasing, or after sex when they're still so damn irresistible to you that you want to prolong contact.”
Another explained the style of foreplay is just as important, "Giving my boob a grab and squeeze isn't going to get me going."
Go slow: Another one which was high on the ladies' lists of no-nos is guys who don't seem to understand their anatomy that well. Clearly put - the clitoris is sensitive, so you can't just go to town down there. "One of my friends was hooking up with a guy and he didn't know where her clit was but was going at her with jackhammer fingers so much so that she was afraid to even show him where it actually was," one woman explained.
Porn problems: Perhaps it's a sign of the times, but it seems a lot of Romeos out there think porn sex is the same thing as real sex. It really is not. A Redditor explained just because you can change position every few seconds, it doesn't mean you should.
Stop start: One of the big ones for a lot of women is guys who just don't take the hint. It seems a lot of men slow things down when their lady is close to getting off, but turns out that's totally the wrong way to go about it. One explained, "If I say, 'Yes, don't stop,' I mean 'don't stop'. I don't mean double-down/speed up/adjust/slow down.”
You booze you lose: Yes having a few drinks might help you set the mood, but you need to know when to call it a day. Alcohol can be a major passion killer too, especially if it leaves your lady wanting.
